Saratoga Irish

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Helicopter Parenting






I was reading an article about the annual Easter Egg hunt in Colorado Springs being canceled this year because of the behavior of the parents last year. Apparently the bull horn used to start the hunt broke and the public address system was not loud enough. When some tots started gathering eggs before others some parents jumped the barricades (a string) grabbing all the eggs they could so that their children would not end up empty handed. “They couldn’t resist getting over the rope to help their kids,” said Ron Alsop, a former Wall Street Journal reporter and author of “The Trophy Kids Grow Up,” which examines the “millennial children” generation. “That’s the perfect metaphor for millennial children. They (parents) can’t stay out of their children’s lives. They don’t give their children enough chances to learn from hard knocks, mistakes.” This is a perfect example of "Helicopter Parents", hovering over every aspect of their kids life so little Johnny or Mary doesn't fail, even at an Easter Egg Hunt. This is the first time I've heard the term, helicopter parents and I love it. Being a big movie fan all I can see is The parent wearing a Calvary hat scooping up Easter eggs saying "I love the smell of PAAS in the morning. It smells like victory" as the helicopters blaring Wagner fly overhead.
The blame for this behavior is being put on parents of the 1980's who put "Baby on Board" signs in their cars. Denis Leary asks in the Ford truck ads about kids getting a trophy for just showing up. This was something that I had to deal with as a parent and a coach of my kids sports teams. "We never got trophies for just being on a team" I would say, "We needed to win". Thinking back this was not always true. I did receive  a trophy for football each year I played Pop Warner (one year we were 0-8 ), baseball was different, only the winning team got a trophy. I have been involved with my kids lives but you would have to ask them if I was hovering over them, I would say no but that's only my opinion. What ever I did or didn't do, I think they turned out pretty good. Now my oldest is going to have to find out for himself in August. As your children grow up and start to have their own children all the lessons that you tried to teach will finally sink in and your kids will have an Aaaha moment. Hopefully the aaaha will be followed by the statement, Dad was right.

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

St. Patrick's Day Tribute



While everyone was out having a good time on this past Saturday, over in Newtown CT. something was being done that we all should be very proud of. Jeff Beaurline walked into the Pub 25 in Newtown , ordered a pint of Guinness ,like  thousands of others were doing on St. Patrick's Day. What made Jeff's pint different was that he didn't drink it. It wasn't for him, it was for Lt Michael Murphy USN. I read the story on facebook and contacted Mr. Beaurline, I asked his permission to pass on his story. He told me that he was honored that I would and that he didn't know Lt Murphy personally but kept his memory alive in his prayers. His facebook posting of the story had over 15,000 hits the first 24 hours or as Mr. Beaurline says, "that means 15,000 thoughts, prayers, smiles, tears and Cheers for Lt. Michael Murphy".  In case you haven't seen it, this is what Jeff Beaurline posted.

As promised....I just walked into a local pub (Pub 25, Newton, CT) and asked to speak with the Owner/Manager. I asked if I could leave a cold one on the bar all day. I showed him the "reserved" sign I had made and explained I wanted to leave him sufficient funds to buy a random person a Guinness every hour today, and when the surprised patron asks "Who is it from?" he should reply, "It's from Lt Michael P. Murphy" and point to the reserved sign. The Owner/Manager was so in tune with the gesture he refused my money, introduced me to two men working in the Pub who just returned home from Afghanistan and Iraq with the assurance that my request on Michael's behalf would be honored. God Bless America.


After contacting Mr. Beaurline he told me that Lt Murphy's family marched in the New York City parade and that what he had done was only a "simple gesture for a fallen brother". That's the only part of it that Mr. Beaurline got wrong, he also said "Murph" is not forgotten, not on my watch". More people should feel that way.



A little about Lt. Michael P. Murphy.



June 28, 2005 On June 28, 2005, deep behind enemy lines east of Asadabad in the Hindu Kush of Afghanistan, a very committed four-man Navy SEAL team was conducting a reconnaissance mission at the unforgiving altitude of approximately 10,000 feet. The SEALs, Lt. Michael Murphy, Gunner’s Mate 2nd Class (SEAL) Danny Dietz, Sonar Technician 2nd Class (SEAL) Matthew Axelson and Hospital Corpsman 2nd Class (SEAL) Marcus Luttrell had a vital task. The four SEALs were scouting Ahmad Shah – a terrorist in his mid-30s who grew up in the adjacent mountains just to the south. Under the assumed name Muhammad Ismail, Shah led a guerrilla group known to locals as the "Mountain Tigers" that had aligned with the Taliban and other militant groups close to the Pakistani border. The SEAL mission was compromised when the team was spotted by local nationals, who presumably reported its presence and location to the Taliban. A fierce firefight erupted between the four SEALs and a much larger enemy force of more than 50 anti-coalition militia. The enemy had the SEALs outnumbered. They also had terrain advantage. They launched a well-organized, three-sided attack on the SEALs. The firefight continued relentlessly as the overwhelming militia forced the team deeper into a ravine. Trying to reach safety, the four men, now each wounded, began bounding down the mountain's steep sides, making leaps of 20 to 30 feet. Approximately 45 minutes into the fight, pinned down by overwhelming forces, Dietz, the communications petty officer, sought open air to place a distress call back to the base. But before he could, he was shot in the hand, the blast shattering his thumb. Despite the intensity of the firefight and suffering grave gunshot wounds himself, Murphy is credited with risking his own life to save the lives of his teammates. Murphy, intent on making contact with headquarters, but realizing this would be impossible in the extreme terrain where they were fighting, unhesitatingly and with complete disregard for his own life moved into the open, where he could gain a better position to transmit a call to get help for his men. Moving away from the protective mountain rocks, he knowingly exposed himself to increased enemy gunfire. This deliberate and heroic act deprived him of cover and made him a target for the enemy. While continuing to be fired upon, Murphy made contact with the SOF Quick Reaction Force at Bagram Air Base and requested assistance. He calmly provided his unit’s location and the size of the enemy force while requesting immediate support for his team. At one point he was shot in the back causing him to drop the transmitter. Murphy picked it back up, completed the call and continued firing at the enemy who was closing in. Severely wounded, Lt. Murphy returned to his cover position with his men and continued the battle. An MH-47 Chinook helicopter, with eight additional SEALs and eight Army Night Stalkers aboard, was sent is as part of an extraction mission to pull out the four embattled SEALs. The MH-47 was escorted by heavily-armored, Army attack helicopters. Entering a hot combat zone, attack helicopters are used initially to neutralize the enemy and make it safer for the lightly-armored, personnel-transport helicopter to insert. The heavy weight of the attack helicopters slowed the formation’s advance prompting the MH-47 to outrun their armored escort. They knew the tremendous risk going into an active enemy area in daylight, without their attack support, and without the cover of night. Risk would, of course, be minimized if they put the helicopter down in a safe zone. But knowing that their warrior brothers were shot, surrounded and severely wounded, the rescue team opted to directly enter the oncoming battle in hopes of landing on brutally hazardous terrain. As the Chinook raced to the battle, a rocket-propelled grenade struck the helicopter, killing all 16 men aboard. On the ground and nearly out of ammunition, the four SEALs, Murphy, Luttrell, Dietz and Axelson, continued the fight. By the end of the two-hour gunfight that careened through the hills and over cliffs, Murphy, Axelson and Dietz had been killed. An estimated 35 Taliban were also dead. The fourth SEAL, Luttrell, was blasted over a ridge by a rocket propelled grenade and was knocked unconscious. Regaining consciousness some time later, Luttrell managed to escape – badly injured – and slowly crawl away down the side of a cliff. Dehydrated, with a bullet wound to one leg, shrapnel embedded in both legs, three vertebrae cracked; the situation for Luttrell was grim. Rescue helicopters were sent in, but he was too weak and injured to make contact. Traveling seven miles on foot he evaded the enemy for nearly a day. Gratefully, local nationals came to his aid, carrying him to a nearby village where they kept him for three days. The Taliban came to the village several times demanding that Luttrell be turned over to them. The villagers refused. One of the villagers made his way to a Marine outpost with a note from Luttrell, and U.S. forces launched a massive operation that rescued him from enemy territory on July 2. By his undaunted courage, intrepid fighting spirit and inspirational devotion to his men in the face of certain death, Lt. Murphy was able to relay the position of his unit, an act that ultimately led to the rescue of Luttrell and the recovery of the remains of the three who were killed in the battle.

Thursday, March 15, 2012

A Great day For The Irish



It's the most wonderful time of the year, St. Patrick's Day is upon us. What makes this day more than any other? The only other Saints day that everyone knows is St. Valentines and they dropped the St. a long time ago. St. Patrick's day is when everyone is Irish, that makes it wonderful, and there in lies the problem. Everyone thinks they know what the Irish are all about but what they know is the stereotype. One, corned beef and cabbage is not Irish. Corned beef  became a Irish cuisine when they started to buy it from Jewish butchers in New York city. In Ireland it would have been boiled ham or bacon and cabbage, (Ireland did produce a salted, cured beef but it was a delicacy that only the wealthy could afford). The Irish drink more than anyone in the world. Not even close. The Irish spend a lot of time in pubs but that is a social thing not a drink to get drunk thing. The public house was the place to find out what was happening, how your neighbors were, what was going on. And the pubs close early, still do. Here the bars are open till the early hours of the morning, some places they don't close at all, (Love you NOLA). What the Irish do love is a good time. They love to sing and dance and tell a good story and that's why everyone wants to go to an Irish pub, it's the atmosphere.
What the Irish aren't is what was displayed on youtube last year and in the newspapers, the infamous "Kegs and Eggs" riot in the student ghetto of Albany. So if you want to enjoy This St. Patrick's Day (notice it's not St. Paddy's or St. Patty's Day) start the day off at mass, put on your best green (by the way the official color of Ireland is blue) watch the Parade in what ever town you are in , if they have one, go to a public house with your friends (Irish pub saying, There are no strangers here, just friends you haven't met yet), drink, sing dance, laugh and then you can call yourself Irish.


Everyone knows the Irish have had a lot to do with the building of this country, here are just a few little facts about the Irish in America.
56 signatures on the Declaration of Independence, 8 were of Irish heritage

Everyone knows that John Kennedy was Irish but there were 21 other Presidents that have Irish blood from Andrew Jackson to Barack Obama.

Bing Crosby, Gene Kelly (middle name, Curran), Eugene O'Neill, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Georga O'Keefe just to name a few famous Irish Americans, but how a couple of notorious Irish.
 Born in New York City to famine refuge parents, Henry McCarty, became well known in New Mexico as Billy the Kid.
Shot and killed on Dove St. in Albany, New York City gangster Jack "Legs" Diamond.
Mary Mallon was an Irish immigrant to American, better known as Typhoid Mary.

Thursday, March 08, 2012

Entertainment for Saturday: Pan Celtic Players




Saturday March 10, the Saratoga Ancient Order of Hibernians are holding their annual Family St. Patrick's Day Party from 2-7 at the Saratoga/Wilton Elks. Rakish Paddy, The Brothers Flynn, The Saratoga Pan Celtic players, The Sons and Daughters of Erin Pipe Band, and The Wild Irish Acres Step dancers will all be performing. The cost is a $10 donation for adults and children under 12 are free. The Elks are providing a cash bar and light fare.

Today we will be looking at The Saratoga Pan Celtic players.

The group of nine musicians gleefully played as others joined one or two at a time, their circle widened and each new arrival was greeted warmly by the others. Just another Wednesday night session at the Parting Glass. The Saratoga Pan Celtic players, brainchild of Celtic Treasures owner, Paul O'Donnell is an open group of musicians playing music from Ireland, Scotland, Quebec and throughout the world. "Anyone that wants to sit in is welcome" says O'Donnell.The session runs from 7pm till 10pm and is open to the public. Last night the group played, piano, hammer dulcimer, button accordion, fiddle, banjo, concertina, uilleann pipes, tin whistle, flute and tie (yes tie. A metal tie played in the fashion of a washboard).
So if you are out in Saratoga on a Wednesday evening stop in to the Parting Glass and enjoy.





Wednesday, March 07, 2012

Entertainment for Saturday: Rakish Paddy


Saturday March 10, The Saratoga Ancient Order of Hibernians will hold their annual Family Friendly St. Patrick's Day Party at the Saratoga/Wilton Elks Club. The party runs from 2-7pm. A $10 donation with children under 12 free of charge. A cash bar and light fare will be available. Entertainment by, The Brothers Flynn, Rakish Paddy, The Saratoga Pan Celtic Players, The Sons and Daughters of Erin Pipe Band and the Wild Irish Acres Step Dancers.

Today we will take a look at Rakish Paddy.

Berkshire county's favorite Celtic Folk band, The engaging duo consisting of Perry Daniels and Princess Eileen Markland  provide solid rhythmic guitar, sweet and powerful fiddle, smooth lively vocals, haunting penny whistle and bodhran. Rounding out the band will be various guest musicians at various venues: Penny whistle, bass, accordian, banjo, percussion... They smoothly blend their collective rock, classical, gypsy and Celtic influences into a high energy, heart throbbing, foot-stomping mix. Every show is sure to be a nicely different experience than the last!

Tuesday, March 06, 2012

Entertainment for Saturday: The Brothers Flynn


Saturday March 10, 2-7pm Family Friendly St. Patrick's Day Party sponsored by The Saratoga Ancient Order of Hibernians. The party will be held at the Saratoga/Wilton Elks Club. $10 donation with a cash bar and light fare available. Rakish Paddy, The Brothers Flynn, Saratoga Pan Celtic, Sons and Daughters of Erin Pipe Band, Wild Irish Acres Step dancers.

Here is a look at one of the bands, The Brothers Flynn.

As a duo, and as founding members of the former Celtic band, Flynn 529, brothers Bill and Tom Flynn have been entertaining audiences and fans within the capital district and beyond since 2006. a fairly eclectic musical mixture of Celtic, folk, rock, blues and originals. The Brothers are at home playing in the coziest Irish Pubs as well as the festival stages.They have been a local favorite at the Irish 2000 Music and Arts Festival as well as the Greater Hartford Irish Festival. This coming May they will be in East Durham Irish Festival.
You can always expect an enjoyable evening where you just never know who else may stop by and sit in....and that may include whistles, fiddles, mandolins etc...on any given night.
With the Brothers Flynn, it's simply about the music, the songs and the craic.

Monday, March 05, 2012

St. Patrick's Day Party



The Saratoga Ancient Order of Hibernians will be holding their annual family friendly St. Patrick's Day part on Saturday March 10 from 2-7pm at the Saratoga/Wilton Elks Club in Saratoga Springs. The cost is a $10 donation for adults and children under 12 are free. This year the party features Rakish Paddy, The Brothers Flynn, The Saratoga Pan Celtic session players, The Sons and Daughters of Erin Pipe Band, and every ones favorite, The Wild Irish Acres School of Dance. There will be a cash bar and the Elks will be selling corned beef and cabbage and more. This year the party has been moved to a Saturday afternoon and it is a great way to start off the high holy week leading up to St. Patrick's Day on the 17th.
The party is a great place for your children and grand children to hear Irish music and watch some wonderful Irish dancing.
The entertainment is special this year also. All week long I will do a blog a day on each so by Saturday you will be chomping at the bit to come and see them in person. Till then here is a little of Rakish Paddy to get you started.



Thursday, March 01, 2012

For the Green Month it Looks Pretty White Out There



We can only hope that the old adage, March comes in like a lion and goes out like a lamb, will prove true this year. The first major snow storm of the winter hit on March 1st, (OK to be technically correct it started on February 29th which by all weighs and means is March 1st ), and yes you read that correct, the FIRST snowstorm of the winter. Not of the year, of the whole winter. Why now? we don't need snow, it's time to get ready for spring. Spring training for baseball has started in Florida and Arizona, the stores are filled with Easter candy and the usual derogatory shirts and hats are on sale for St. Patrick's Day.
So let's get this out of the way on March 1st. Last year Parade Day in Albany was marred with drunken college students that thought St. Patrick's Day is open season on drunk and disorderly conduct. It's not hard to understand how these young people came up with this idea because stores such as Spencer's Gifts and Walmarts sell shirts with sayings such as, Irish I had a beer, Everybody Loves a Drunk Girl (with shamrocks), Irish Drinking Team. This year the store Urban Outfitters has come up with a line of St. Patrick's Day apparel saying Irish Yoga (a stick figure on hands and knees vomiting shamrocks) and a plastic beer bottle with the label that reads "Leprechaun Piss". So it is up to us, the real Irish Americans to set these people straight. How will people understand what St. Patrick's Day truly means until we educate them.
Now back to the fun stuff, March is full of Irish music, locally this weekend you can see and hear:
Friday  at the Albany AOH, Who's Your Paddy.
Saturday, Hair of the Dog  at the River Street Pub in Troy. The Brothers Flynn will be at Power's Pub in Clifton Park. Rakish Paddy will be playing at the Polish Falcons Club in Pittsfield Mass. for a fundraiser supporting The Jimmy Fund.This only the tip of the iceberg folks. So go out enjoy and remember this is our month